V7 MC2

Hell yeah, V7 gang all the way for all the reasons you mentioned. Plus, it's cheaper than the 58 by ~£20!

I own a 441 and a V7. They are remarkably similar. The 441’s hi shelf switch adds a touch of sweetness not found on the V7 but it’s not worth the extra $. What is worth the extra $ is the cool factor though! It has a certain visual weight and presence on stage that adds up. V7 needs less gain, both reject feeback similary. Either way the V7 is my fave cheap vocal mic for live. The 441 is my fave mic overall 

https://youtu.be/txMB2nWixHM?si=vdQbJ0mzD3aafSum we use shields like this nowadays, with gobos it really works to keep cymbal bleed out of vocal mics. Also SEV7 on vocals and make sure the drums are placed in their off axis region.

I like the SE V7. The wired mic and capsule for wireless are pretty budget-friendly.

try super cardiod mics like the se v7 or even shure beta 58a. have your drummer tape his cymbals. turn guitars and bass down on stage. use in ear monitor. project your voice more but not like you are doing to hurt yourself etc