ROG Spatha! I have huge hands and it feels great!
https://www.amazon.com/ASUS-ROG-Wireless-Magnetic-Programmable/dp/B09726KT4R?source=ps-sl-shoppingads-lpcontext&ref_=fplfs&psc=1&smid=ATVPDKIKX0DER&gQT=2
No worries man I know your pain. My hand shape is practically the same as yours and I need a thumb rest due to an old injury so finding a mouse was an exercise in frustration I don't wish upon others.
For reference I ended up going for the Asus Rog Spatha but it does have its drawbacks, namely the horrendous software that will sometimes just forget your preset and you'll have to do it all over again. But damn it is comfortable compared to all other mice I've had.
I had the same problems and got an Asus ROG spatha x. It's the first mouse that feels truly comfortable and fills my hand adequately since I was a teenager.
ROG Spatha X, I have some big ass hands, before that, G502 coming up on 9k hours at this point. oh and on occasion when im just farming late at night or playing tommyguns or ukn a XBOX elite 2 controller. i use it wired btw a lot of people were trashing on wireless mice.
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