If budget is not an issue, I'd say zowie. I came from Fk-2b wired zowie and used it for like 5 years and still working tho the scroll wheel was pretty much trash in the long run. Pretty sure their wireless counterparts are more durable with updated sensor as well.
fk2-b for 8 years
1) skates got free at the edges
2) when scrolling, it scrolled opposite direction
3) clicks lost tension, it was flapping up and down
4) both clicks double-clicking
I got 2000 ELO with that mouse on csgo faceit while having all those above problems.
Reading the description of your problems, you grip your mice the same way that I do. Also, your hands are almost the same size as mine (19x10 here). Trust me and get the fk2dw. It’s going to be your favourite and best performing shape. If you don’t want to pay that much, try getting a second hand wired fk2 for cheap just to try out the shape beforehands. Thank me later homie!
Its a lil pricey but seriously try the zowie fk2, I am also a finger tip grip style with big hands and was absolutely shocked how good the shape is on the FK2. After using both super lights for years I cant go back after experiencing the fk2
Apart from clones, I find the closest one to the feeling of this shape is the Pulsar JVX because of the flat buttons and higher button height on the left click.
But also the FK2 feels similar because of where you can rest your ring+pinky finger on the right-side of the mouse. The aggressive curve of the right-rear of the FK2 is close to emulating that sharp right-rear corner of the Roccat Kone, allowing me to curl and tuck-in my ring+pinky finger the same way.
ULX Medium also feels very similar actually, it's like an ambi version of the Kone.
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