Luxe Memory Foam Mattress

I got a nectar for side sleeping full size for about 1400 bucks it took about 6 months for the break-in but it's amazing and has great stability for some romping. It's really the pillow that you have to consider and spending $150 on a pillow is worth it but don't buy it from nectar talk to your chiropractor for the right one

That is not great advice. My Nectar mattress arrived in a box and has been the absolute BEST mattress Ive ever owned.

You should take your own advice to heart then. Because its clear you dont know any better either. Just because it came in a box doesnt mean its not effective. Lumping all boxed mattresses into a negative category is a gross misrepresentation of boxed mattresses overall. Of course there are cheap and trashy ones, but theres also honest to gods amazing ones deservibg of praise. My Nectar king mattress that came in a box is 5 years old now and still feel like I just bought it last week.

I have a King mattress from nectar, but their bed-frames suck. We’ve broken them twice just from lying on them. What is your recommended bed frame for MIB mattresses?

You might want to check out the Nectar Memory Foam. My partner and I are both side sleepers and it's helped with back and hip pain quite a bit. It has that contouring feel without being too soft, and motion isolation is great too.

got a Nectar in my dorm last year thinking it was gonna be a win — first few months were great for side sleeping but ngl it started sleeping kinda warm in summer. mine also softened up more than I expected after like a year so I was kinda wishing I paid more attention to that part upfront.

That “starts great then softens” thing comes up a lot with memory foam. If you liked the feel at first, a firmer model or a hybrid (with coils) usually holds up better long term. For the heat, a breathable mattress protector or even switching to cotton/linen sheets can help a bit, but foam is still gonna trap more heat than coils. Sounds like it just wasn’t built for durability + hot climates.

That whole “unwrap it and it instantly becomes perfect” thing feels oversold. Mine took a full couple of days before it actually expanded evenly, and the smell lingered way longer than expected even with windows open constantly. Cover also started getting a slightly fuzzy/pilled texture near the foot area after regular use, which surprised me because it looked super smooth out of the box. Not a dealbreaker, just one of those “this doesn’t age like the marketing photos” moments. Setup itself was easy enough, but the first impression vs. a few weeks later felt like two different mattresses in terms of feel and finish.