
NEMO
Disco 15 Series
Spacious for side sleepers; bulky, temp rating optimistic.

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I sleep rather cold. I could never make a quilt work for me I says wanted the sleeping bag hood and no air drafts. So it’s the Xtherm and western mountaineering versalite 10 degree F or ultra lite 20 degree F bag for me in almost any US mountain west situation when I’m alone. I think western mountaineering is king sleeping bag maker in the USA. You Could look for used or sales on the Bags because I think they’re more than $500. When I hike with my wife I do a 10 degree accomplice double quilt from Enlightened equipment. I do find the other body heat helps. We tried a ff spoonbill which has a hood but it didn’t work as well as the quilt with two. So I have to be mindful of drafts. As others said eat something before bed, pee, and eat something else at night if you wake up cold and pee if you need to. Also there’s some argument to be had for naked sleeping in a sleeping bag that’s warm enough vs wearing puffies to sleep in. I personally always wear down pants and jacket to sleep if it’s cold. Also campsite selection can contribute to cold.
Two sleeping pads + sleeping pad coupling straps to hold them together (OR the thermarest luxe coupling sheet, not UL but it was a game changer for us) + 2 person quilt. My husband and I use the thermarest neoair xlites and the enlightened equipment 2p quilt. We love being able to cuddle but also separate ourselves or sprawl onto each other's sleeping pads. Edit: I'm not sure if you asked for a tent recc but we've been enjoying the durston xdome 2
If you’re car camping just bring blankets. For backpacking my wife and I have an enlightened equipment double quilt. Very warm, very light. But let tell you: sharing a bed backpacking and sharing a bed at home is not the same. And the bag is larger so packing is a little more complicated
My gf and I use an Enlightened Equipment Accomplice quilt with a Big Agnes double-wide pad. Since the quilt doesn't have a bottom, we use a Klymit double V sheet to put something between us and the pad, though it's the same size as a twin mattress, so before the Klymit we were just using a fitted sheet. We are both relatively small people, so this setup is comfortable for us. We can be close, but since the sides aren't zipped, we can kick a leg out or leave a side open if one of us gets too hot. This has worked well for us in a variety of temperatures.
Good pad with a good quilt will make you a happy camper
Enlightened equipment makes some quilts that are safety rated down to -17C and I’m sure other brands go further. They wrap around your sleeping pad so air can’t escape. With a ccf pad and high r-value inflatable pad, you could sleep naked safely in very cold weather. Another option is buying heavy down jacket and down pants. You will look/feel like a marshmallow but be extremely warm. That used to be my go to.
I did the PCT with a 10 degree enlightened equipment enigma (quilt with sewn footbox) and it's a way more comfortable sleep than my mummy bag days. It's the #1 bag in that survey for a reason. It's now lasted me 12 years and about 200 nights and is still in amazing shape. I also have their 40 deg quilt. When outside The bag never leaves the tent, other than while in the stuff sack. At home store it in a oversized large storage bag or hang it from a hanger in your closet and occasionally (like every couple months) store it the opposite way. I imagine I'll get another decade out of it.

NEMO
Disco 15 Series
Spacious for side sleepers; bulky, temp rating optimistic.
Hammock Gear
Classic Burrow 20°F
Budget king; very warm but heavier than ultralight.

NEMO
Disco 30
Spoon shape for side sleepers; prone to zipper issues.

Western Mountaineering
VersaLite
Durable, very warm; premium price, too hot in summer.

Katabatic Gear
Alsek 22°F Quilt
Versatile 3-season quilt; secure pad attachment, high price.

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Feathered Friends - Egret UL 20/30

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