I'm a big guy and I feel good on a nemo tensor. I also have a nemo quasar 3d but I think they're discontinued? When properly inflated, I am well supported and I'm a side sleeper at 270#
I also have a naturehike cot that packs down small enough for motocamping, but so many campsites are built for RV's now and the rocky ground + the cot resulted in holes in the bottom of my tent, even through the footprint. The cot just focuses the pressure onto to small of an area. I got some stick on felt to put on the cot feet, but I haven't tested it if fixed the problem yet.
I personally use the Nemo Quasar 3D. Its inflatable but its super comfortable and packs down pretty small!
I've had it for about 3 years now and love it!
Side sleeping, Florida, and Appalachian Trail hiker here.
I use the insulated Nemo Quasar 3D and under inflate. It’s R value is less than you’re looking for but maybe the important thing to consider is inflatable+insulate? Of course there’s a weight penalty for that added cushion.
If you aren’t super concerned about weight I absolutely love my Nemo Quasar. It’s heavier and larger than the tensor, and it has a lower r value. But for someone with a bad back and a side sleeper, that pad COMPLETELY changed how I sleep backpacking. Go to REI if you can and try out all the pads you want, they’re super friendly and have a fair few display pads you can lay on and get an idea of what you like
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