ZenWiFi XD5

With a tri-band WiFi 6 mesh system that leverages the 3rd band exclusively for mesh backhaul traffic, speeds should approach wired connectivity performance. Not guaranteed to be as good as wired, but most likely better than a typical dual-band WiFi extender. I know this because I tried a dual-band mesh system (ZenWiFi mini XD5 - 2.4ghz & 5ghz) and saw my internet speeds drop in half (from 300mbps to 150mbps). Used a a tri-band mesh system (ASUS ZenWiFi XT8 - 2.4ghz, 5ghz \[client\] & 5ghz \[mesh backhaul\]) and my internet speeds were consistently right around 300mbps at both the router and the node. BTW the node was 2 floors downstairs. Using wireless backhaul. The XT8 set is also just a 2-pack. The XD5 came in a 3-pack. I tried using just 2 nodes, then 1 on each floor, and still only got 50% of my internet speed with the dual-band XD5 set. The XT8 gives me 100% of rated internet speed. Not certain if all tri-band mesh systems have such performance (I only have experience with this one), but the XT8 works very well in my environment. Logically it seems tri-band would work better than dual-band.

If you want an easy setup, nice user interface and ability to tweak options/configurations down the road, ASUS ZenWiFi is a good option. Another bonus with ASUS is you can use a mobile phone app \*or\* a web interface on a laptop/computer to manage the system. Many other mesh systems from TP-Link, Netgear, Eero only let you manage them with a mobile phone app. That is fine if you have basic needs but if you want to get more control over settings, often not an option. For example TP-Link may not let you select WiFi channels for its wireless networks. With ASUS you have control over a multitude of settings. Or just leave it on the defaults and if you ever wish to dive into the config, it will be ready and waiting for you. I asked Google Gemini for some thoughts too (another poster used Ai so I gave it a try too). I see ASUS ZenWiFi is in the list along with others. Since your needs don't seem very complex any of these should work pretty well. Unfamiliar with Eero, but you stated they are "difficult" to move into AP mode, no idea why but if you know that to be true then I suppose you could remove Eero from your consideration list. Have fun! Click below image to make it larger... https://preview.redd.it/q9mu50skxxrf1.png?width=925&format=png&auto=webp&s=1fb6721ce7d5fb1ded5fee09f45ed12ce365b752

Wi-Fi 6 I can personally vouch for the ASUS AX1800 or AX3000 routers. Avoid TP-Link and Huawei Wi-Fi '6' routers for VR gaming specifically, they're know to cause issues. Their Wi-Fi '6e' routers are fine though. In terms of connecting multiple headsets to the same router, do you mean you're playing native games downloaded on the Quests [no PC] and are just using the router to get internet to them? Or do you have multiple PCs setup and doing PC VR gaming?

Good call on moving the router upstairs. Centrally located, an ASUS AX3000 would be good. Any budget you’re on?

Just upgraded to 1gig with spectrum and they threw one in for free, so i'm selling my Asus AX3000. DM if you're interested.

I got rid of my Asus AX6000 and AX3000 for a single Reyee RG-EW7200BE-PRO and I am thoroughly impressed. Better in every way and way cheaper than the Asus devices.

Asus is terrible. I just got rid of all my Asus routers. I'm using a single Reyee RG-EW7200BE-PRO now. What a difference, the software is a million times better and the performance is far superior for half the price of Asus.