
GL.iNet
GL-MT6000 (Flint 2)
OpenWrt enthusiast's choice; good value, but lacks 6GHz.

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Had an ORBI for many years, its had numerous minor issues over the years but it finally stopped functioing a month or two ago and I go myself an Archer AX10, quite happy with setup and no issues so far.
tp link AX55, i have ax10 and its very good, the ax55 is the newer version and has great reviews, ive had great experience with tp link
Archer Ax10 is also the best option, I am currently using it. I got it for around 13,800.
It can provide you but only on 5GHz band. Since 2.4GHz is only wifi 4 then it can only give you around 100mbps only.
Depends on your usage, but I use an AX10 for Wireless VR with good results, and iperf3 gave me like 800mbps 2 meters from the router (5Ghz) It will of course also depend on what wifi card you have on your computer, phone, etc. The rest are better routers, but I'd argue for most people it won't make a difference. I have a few AX53/AX3000 on clients and they handle more devices better, but for a house, an AX10/AX23 ir more than enough. Another option would be to future-proof and go the wifi7 route (a 6ghz model, with tri-band) but that's another price entirely and you need 6Ghz or wifi7 support on your computer/phone, etc
10 years ago, you had this feature, but you had maaaaybe one or two updates and then that feature became obsolote two years after the purchase. In this particular case, if you want ongoing security protection or filtering, you need a constant updating, it's not something that you just enable and it works, so it makes sense if you want that up to date protection, to pay for it. A different thing would be for them to charge you for using Wi-Fi, or using manual routes, or using port forwarding. But if they want to charge you for something that it's basically antivirus for your router, it makes no sense for it to be free.
The 360 slim is wifi 4 (n) on 2.4ghz only, and the router may be putting it on 5ghz. If you can somehow test directly on the 2.4ghz band, that would help. If you can't create a separate wifi network on 2.4ghz, try disabling "Band Steering" if it's an option in the router. That's the setting that tries to put devices on the 5ghz band. The security protocol should be set to WPA2 as well, if it's not already. Anyway, any modern wifi 6 router should be able to handle this. Routers are backwards compatible with previous wifi versions. Here's a TPlink for $50 - https://www.amazon.com/TP-Link-Wireless-AX1500-Wifi-Router/dp/B07ZSDR49S?th=1

GL.iNet
GL-MT6000 (Flint 2)
OpenWrt enthusiast's choice; good value, but lacks 6GHz.

Ubiquiti
Dream Router 7
Advanced management, but limited Wi-Fi 7 range, SFP+ issues.

Ubiquiti
Dream Machine Series
Comprehensive control, stable for large homes, but slow support.

Ubiquiti
UniFi Dream Router (UDR)
Modular, user-friendly, but tricky advanced setup, poor penetration.

GL.iNet
Beryl AX (GL-MT3000)
Travel king, versatile, OpenWrt, but bulky power adapter.