C30i

I use the Soundcore C30i by Anker. They are perfect for listening to music whilst being fully aware of your surroundings. They are very reasonably priced too. I highly recommend them.

Older fixed bridge clip-ons like soundcore c30i (my first clip-ons) can be uncomfortable after a while, but these flexible ones like the shokz opendots are super comfortable. I wear them literally all day, sometimes not even listening to anything because I just forgot about them being on. I can see how someone might prefer one or the other, but as a glasses-wearer, over-ear hooks are in the way a lot. Clip-ons work with glasses, hats, helmets etc. It sounds crazy but sometimes I put over-ear headphones over them when I'm listening to both pc and phone audio (e.g. playing a game while listening to a podcast on my phone).

I have the C30i open ear buds and they stay on with no issues. I have multiple ear piercings too and it doesnt bother me. I have small ears. https://preview.redd.it/f4lwitsmx7ug1.jpeg?width=1125&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c78e43e5bf0defb26ffd34e3adcbaae43bb258f7

For the smallest pairs, check out these 3 Shokz OpenDots ONE, Huawei FreeClip, Soundcore C30i. C30i is the cheapest, they're not bad. It's just not as good as the first 2. Huawei also has the FreeClip 2 coming soon. The Shokz sound the best and get the loudest. Both Shokz and and Huawei have great call quality. C30i is terrible for calls.

Everything falls out of my ears. Literally absolutely every single pair of earbuds. Apparently my concha is shallow. I recommend Soudcore c30i. Changed my life. If you want to be fancy, Bose has a similar offering.