
Apple
AirPod Pro Series
Apple-integrated, great ANC but can cause ear pain.

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I have Huawei Free Clips and they're what you described. I wear mine all day at work and I talk to people and still hear my music.
I recently started testing a few, premium as well as cheapos. Sometimes amazing how little difference there is. Like those two in the pic. I actually like the much cheaper QCY Crossky C50 better than the new SoundPeats Clip1. I like the Bose, but fear for their life in rain. Also like the Soundcore Aeroclip, but can’t justify the price … the Baseus MC1 pro with IPX67 have the best weather / dust rating. Keep seeing the Huawei freeclips topping lists on YT, but when I tested them I found them just ‘eh’ … my pref is great sound, don’t need LDAC, not interested in phone quality … what else should I check out?
The Huawei Freeclip don't have aptX though unlike the BOSE and I need a low latency codec for my needs. I should say though that the Huawei were actually my second to third choice in case I didn't liked the BOSE!
Huawei free clip. They never fall out while working out and I can barely feel them in my ears. I was an airpods pro user for years before and just hated to adjust them all the time. Sound quality is decent too
for calls check out the Huawei freeclip (if they are available where you live), they are almost sorcery in terms of call quality, was one of the reasons I kept them instead of the opendots
My ear shape sounds similar to yours. I first tried the soundcore aeroclip and also the huawei freeclip, but clip-style designs always feel a bit uncomfortable after long use. I recently switched to the shokz openfit 2+, and I found the earhook design fits my ears better and stays very stable. You could try it too if you’re interested, it might open up a whole new world haha.

Apple
AirPod Pro Series
Apple-integrated, great ANC but can cause ear pain.

OnePlus
Buds 4
Budget king, great ANC/sound, but no wireless charging.

Anker Soundcore
Sport X20
Secure fit for sport, durable, but connectivity issues.

EarFun
Air Pro 4
Budget value, good ANC/sound, but cheap case, noisy transparency.

Beats (Apple)
Fit Pro
Workout king, secure fit, but wing-tips tear easily.

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Denon - PerL Pro

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Sony - WF-1000XM5

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Shokz - OpenFit Series