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+1 to this. I just recently got Shokz Openfit 2 because I prefer individual earbuds to the headband style. They’re great for anything trail related (hiking, biking, running) and for races, because I can still hear. I also find I use them while cooking a lot, again because I can still hear whether something is boiling/sauteeing too hard or whatever. But I found I still need to go back to my older pair of Jabra Elites with noise canceling for other uses, like running on the road or grocery shopping, where I really prefer to block out noise. At some point I’ll probably replace the Jabras with Beats or AirPods or something, but they’re still hanging on for now.
The shokz openfit 2+ are a little pricy but awesome.
OP said ANC is a must... You're clowning. I have a set of Openfit 2 and they're great, but they are the literal opposite of noise cancelling. (Sure the upcoming "Pro" is supposed to have some kind of ANC, but I haven't seen those in the wild and whether it works well is an "open" question.)
Just picked up Shokz Open Fit Air, loving the open form factor.
All in ear head phones hurt and I hate having my ears squished by over the ear headphones. My SIL bought me the SHOKZ openfit 2. I love them. They sit over your ears and don’t actually go in them. I’m sure other brands would work but that style is my favorite. I’ll never go back to the classic styles. My BIL has the ones that are bone conduction and he loves them but idk what brand.
I bought myself Shokz Openfit 2. They go around the ear instead of inside. I absolutely love them but they were expensive. You can get something super similar at the several places including the dollar store dollar store. I saw ones at five below that looked similar.

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Workout secure, Apple-friendly, but wing-tips tear and case feels cheap.

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Sport X20
Value workout buds, secure fit, but connectivity can be iffy.

EarFun
Air Pro 4
Budget champ with great sound/ANC, but transparency has static.

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